I find myself joking, “Someone should write a book called, ' Where the hell is the line? Later, as my legs turn over on the treadmill, I think back on the relationships that I stayed in too long.As I consider commonalities in my stayed-too-long-at-the-party relationships, I note five things they all had in common. In one of my more toxic relationships, we had deteriorated to the point where we literally could not talk about anything beyond the weather or TV without getting into an argument.It would have been healthier to cut our losses sooner.Relationships should never cause us to lose things: friends, health, sleep, a sense of who we are.
For one, chances are you’re still friends with your ex, and your ex will be at that place. Lesbians have a tendency to talk about their past relationships. Especially if they’re trying to recover from a broken heart, lesbians have this habit of oversharing what went wrong in their previous relationship.Sexuality is fluid and many people do not understand that statement.Being fluid in sexuality is to have the freedom of loving and having a relationship with either a man or a woman.In my experience, 100% of the time, when someone’s deal breaker is broken, like when there is some betrayal, the relationship is damaged beyond repair.For me, I have been on both sides of the deal breaker and the relationship soured and became even more hurtful following the deal breaker.