Comfort: According to former FBI agent and body language expert Joe Navarro, we have to first ask ourselves a very basic question: Is his overall body language comfortable (leaning toward you, torso and feet pointed in your direction with a comfortable amount of eye contact) or uncomfortable (facing away from you, hands hidden, either staring at you or constantly breaking eye contact)?Every guy will tell you if they’re into you with their body language."Dilation is a brain response that occurs when you like and are attracted to something," Wood says. If he raises his brows ever so slightly while you're talking, it means he's interested in whatever you're saying. He might not show off a toothy grin while casually flirting, but on a really awesome date when he's having loads of fun? Real smiles extend well beyond the mouth: They lift the forehead and give you slightly squinty eyes. When you're attracted to someone, your mouth produces extra saliva, Wood says. You might think that a guy who is totally enamored by you will find it hard to peel his eyes away. But when he subconsciously takes a deep breath — he'll pull in his stomach and puff out his chest — it's a subconscious way to make his upper body look broader and his waist look smaller, two qualities that make him look more fit and (from an evolutionary perspective) more desirable, Wood says. In a noisy bar, this sign might not hold much weight. Of course, timing is super important in interpreting the feet: If you're talking to a guy who seems interested, you touch his arm, and then see his feet angle away from you, the context says he's no longer interested. But if he crosses his legs away and turns the rest of his body toward you, it could just mean that he's shy, depending on the guy. But don't rush to judge a great conversationalist just because he chats you up while he faces forward. The throat represents communication and vulnerability, Wood says. This kind of full-fledged hand-holding signifies a desire to connect. If he's constantly two steps ahead of you, it means he's more concerned about himself than you, Wood says.Look for teeth: "When he feels really happy, he's not covering that up," Wood says. If his smile involves his whole face, it means you're genuinely affecting him in a good way. In response, he might quickly lick his lips or press them together. But now that everyone is used to being glued to their phones, nonstop eye contact can make people feel uncomfortable. In other words, he's into you and he's trying to attract you. But when he can physically hear you perfectly well and leans in anyway, it means he's interested in what you have to say — and you, in general. He puts his hands on his hips with his elbows out to the sides. If he makes an effort to find a common thread or asks you lots of questions, his body language may reflect his personality (shy), and he could actually be totally enthralled by you. If he reaches up to touch it during your interaction, he's interested in you and worried about coming across well. The same goes for interlocking fingers, while an arched palm means he's scared or may be holding something back (literally). Unless he's leading you through a scary or crowded space, he should adjust his pace to match yours.Chances are that he’s still waiting for you to impress him, so if you do like him, don’t give up just yet.
Body language is an essential ingredient of attraction. As a published Penguin author, Vanessa regularly speaks and appears in the media to talk about her research. But guys don't have to say much to show you what they're thinking. Because touch is a tool he uses to test your limits, it could mean he's only interested in sex, Wood says. Because this position exposes his man parts, which are full of sensitive nerve endings, it's a vulnerable position that could mean he's willing to put himself out there (literally 12. Because the pelvis is overtly sexual, Wood says, it often signals sexual interest — or lack thereof. Because the feet are involved in the fight-or-flight response that kicks in when you're in danger, they're largely controlled by the unconscious mind — and can be very telling in social interactions.That's because unconscious body language signals can be extremely telling, says Patti Wood, a body language expert with more than 30 years of experience and author of So, in the early stages of a new relationship (like when you first meet an online date), look out for the following signs to get a sense of what he's thinking.1. Either you're in a super-dark place, or this subtle signal means he's into you. People tend to use this subconscious expression to help open their eyes when they like what they see. If he really likes you, though, he might pull back extra-slowly and smile sweetly as he does it, which means he wants to take the time to get closer to you. If he angles his hips away from you, it's probably the latter. "The feet tend to point where the heart wants to go," Wood says. If he crosses them in a way that turns his torso and upper body away from you, he might be disinterested. Wood says this could be a sign he's keeping his options open. So feel him out, and look for other signs on this list before you go reassure him. When he holds your hand, he presses his palm against yours.But you’ll understand what I’m saying in a couple seconds. When a man has something to tell you, but he isn’t in any way romantically interested in you, he is going to position himself at about one foot and a half away from you.However, if a guy stands closer than that and you can see him leaning towards you, then it’s pretty clear that he is into you and that he’s subtly trying to establish a physical connection.