I know it was not something we discussed or I saw growing up in my family, before or after my parents divorced and they got into other relationships.
If both of you need to work in another country, then that’s an LDR.
February is a shit time to find someone you have fun with and connect with on all levels. And though I still think he was an idiot, to be fair, I absolutely did deserve that and he did not give it to me at all, so. "What if you just come over to my place and watch a movie? "I'm just not ready for a relationship right now." Translation: "I do not want to be in a relationship with you, in particular, probably ever.
"I want to be with you, but…" Literally anything that comes after this should incorporate tiny violins playing alongside him because that is how garbagey and hilarious whatever he's about to say is. See also: "You deserve someone who can love you the way you deserve to be loved," which is something an ex actually said to me once.
"Maybe we can think about being exclusive soon." There's nothing like hearing "Maybe I'll stop fucking other people in the coming months, maybe not, tough to say" to really make me start falling in love.2. " You mean do I want you to be too lazy to actually take me out somewhere amazing and then try to feel me up within the first 20 minutes of ? While my commitment issues may be even more far-reaching than that, it's tough to say, so again, it's probs just how I feel about you.". Eventually I stopped texting him and I imagine he now sits around wondering why I stopped liking him, since I'm sure he thinks he did everything right.
"I'm scared of how good this is." This is usually used as excuse as to why they can't commit or date you anymore. Bro, clearly you did not because I'm writing about your dumb-dumb behavior on .10. You should swing by." This one is hilariously lazy. Being vague about "maybe" getting together this weekend.